"Enjoy it while you are here. You're not coming back (Barcelona)."
Thang, the owner and chef at Mẹ, a trendy Vietnamese fusion restaurant, told me this as we three shared a delicious ginger juice tonic. There we were, three Vietnamese people, with different life and personal experiences, sharing a drink in Barcelona, all connected by our Vietnamese culture and heritage.
Hong-An was born in France and has lived all over the world. I have never met a Vietnamese person who has lived in as many countries as she has. Hong-An and I met through Couch Surfing after I posted something about trying Vietnamese food.
Thang was from Vietnam and left right before the fall of Saigon. He moved to the states and eventually decided to move a country where he knew nothing and no one.
Me, well, I was born in Little Saigon, Orange County, lived there my whole life in the delightful bubble that it was. I went to college and through my school was able to work abroad and study abroad.
Hong-An and I met at Mẹ (which means Mom in Vietnamese) and waited for another Couch Surfer who was supposed to come. While we waited, we talked about all the delightful Vietnamese dishes we love and miss. Thang overheard us speaking in Vietnamese and thus began our conversation. The restaurant was empty when I first got there since it was about 8:45PM. As some of you may or may not know, the Spanish don't eat dinner until 9 or 10 or sometimes even 11. I don't know how that works.
Anyway, after some time we got to our table and looked at the menu for our dishes. Being Vietnamese, and being from a Vietnamese town, I am one Picky Patty when it comes to judging Vietnamese dishes. We had a hard time choosing between which dishes to get but with some help from Thang, we decided on something traditional, the Bun Bo Hue, one of my favorite Vietnamese dishes, and something innovative, the Banh Beo with fish and fish sauce foam (I was sold on the fish sauce foam).
The Bun Bo Hue, which is a beef broth soup seasoned with lemongrass and chili served with vermicelli was 12.50 euros. Now, if I told my grandma about that price she would say, "I could cook a whole pot of Bun Bo Hue for the whole family with that money," which is true. The beef was good and the noodles were cooked nicely but it really all came down the broth and frankly, I was not impressed. It did not hit the spot. I was hoping for that blast of nostalgia to come surging in as the soup wetted my palette but like all Bun Bo Hue that is not my grandma's I was mildy disappointed. I had to ask for extra fish sauce to give it more flavor.
Our main dish was Banh Beo, which is usually a small rice cake, but Thang made it into one big one with three slices of fish (not sure the name). On top there was fish sauce foam made by reducing fish sauce and scooping out the foam on top. Of course it's a lot more complicated than that but that's the gist of it. I was really impressed by this dish and almost allowed myself to feel okay about paying 23 euros for it. The price you pay for fine cuisine I guess. The fish sauce foam was amazing. It had all the essential elements of fish sauce without the risk of terrible breath afterwards. With the fish, it was quite nice.
Now that I'm done describing the food, I want to take some time to say a few things about this dinner that really helped me revisit my past and look forward to my future, hence the title of this blog. Hong-An and I shared our experiences of being Vietnamese outside Viet Nam and how it has affected the people we are today. We were both able to relate on being from conservative and traditional families lacking in openness and affection. We talked about how it has affected us as individuals and how it has given us strength as well. We talked about a period in our lives where we rebelled against being Vietnamese and all things Vietnamese and how as we get older try to find that culture again. What was incredible was that though we lived in different countries and had completely different experiences growing up, we shared a lot of the same experiences just through being Vietnamese. I haven't met too many Vietnamese people outside the United States so it was really nice for me to get a different perspective.
Meeting with Hong-An made me really excited for my future in discovering more about myself. Being able to talk about my culture and share my experiences with others in some way helps me understand myself a bit more. I felt that being able to understand this and embrace being a Vietnamese-American-World Citizen at a restaurant that mixes Vietnamese cuisine with others was extremely appropriate for this little fuse that lit up in my heart.
Though I may not be able to visit this restaurant too often due to the hefty price tag, I definitely am glad I decided to try it out and meet Hong-An and Thang. Great people with great stories and greater ambitions.
Eat well,
Vina